How to Recover From Stress: Why Rest Isn’t Always Enough


Active and Passive Recovery: Why We Need Both

It’s easy to expect downtime like a holiday, a quiet weekend or a period of rest to restore us after the cumulative effects of stress and fatigue. In my clinical experience, however, recovery after prolonged stress can take much longer than people anticipate. Rest is an important part of that process, but so is a more active form of recovery.

Recovery can involve both active and passive approaches. Active recovery involves choices that support those processes: changing activity, moving in line with our energy levels, creating transitions between demands, detaching from work or reducing avoidable demands. Passive recovery means pursuits that take little energy and physical exertion: sleep, a massage, a duvet day.

We need both in our repertoire, and we need to stay flexible in how we apply them. 

Rest and recovery aren’t necessarily the same

Rest is the reduction or removal of demand; time off from work, slowing down, reducing workload. These are valuable and give your body more space and time to replenish and restore. Rest, however, is a passive form of recovery that doesn’t account for the fact that sometimes its our way of life has to change to fully enable recovery.

Recovery is something specific. It is the restoration of the resources, capacity, and physiological balance that have been depleted by stress. And the research shows that simply removing the stressor isn’t necessarily sufficient to restore a truly depleted state.

Stress activation doesn’t automatically stop when the demand stops. It can keep going through rumination, cognitive preoccupation, physiology and the somatic holding patterns that sustained stress establishes in our bodies. The chemistry mobilised for a difficult day carries forward into the evening and sometimes for days afterwards.

Recovery requires doing something to support deactivation and restore depleted resources. 

How the research describes recovery

The recovery research defines recovery as a process over time. It is related to the type and duration of stress. It depends on a reduction, a change, or a break from the stressor. It is individually specific; what restores one person may not restore another. It ends when a psychophysical state of restored efficiency is reached, and stress activation and recovery happen more automatically again.

The stress loop: why stress chemistry needs to be completed

Stress responses are designed to be completed through physical action. Adrenaline, noradrenaline, and cortisol mobilised by a difficult conversation, a pressured deadline, a family crisis, or bad news evolved to enable a physical, active response. Fighting, fleeing, moving, taking action (even if that action is immobilisation).

Modern life triggers the same cascade but rarely provides the physical resolution. The chemistry is mobilised but not metabolised. It carries forward into oxidative stress, inflammation, physical tension and, over time, possible energy/ mitochondrial depletion. The accumulation often compounds invisibly.

This is why movement matters: it helps with stress cycle completion, the metabolisation of chemistry that the day mobilised and did not resolve. A twenty-minute walk after a demanding afternoon is a physiological intervention that changes the chemistry your nervous system carries into the evening, and therefore the end-of-day wind-down that follows.

Active recovery and micro habits

Active recovery is a reorientation of how you use time, creating moment-to-moment habits that prioritise recovery opportunities throughout the day rather than waiting to restore once stress has passed.

Movement throughout the day

As described above, movement is the primary mechanism through which stress chemistry is metabolised. This could be a walk between a difficult meeting and the next task, a walking meeting. Dedicated movement breaks during prolonged computer work.  Physical movement at the end of the workday, before transitioning to personal time. These help the day’s accumulated chemistry resolve rather than carry forward, and doing that throughout the day can discharge stress along the way rather than waiting until the end.

The research on movement breaks highlights that distributed brief movement across the day produces measurable improvements in cognitive performance, mood, and alertness compared with uninterrupted sedentary work. Three minutes of movement every thirty minutes of seated work is sufficient to produce this effect. A two-minute walk between tasks helps change physiological state in ways that sitting and breathing alone do not.

The transition between demands

The most overlooked source of physiological accumulation in a demanding day is not the individual demands themselves it’s the absence of transition between them. A difficult conversation followed immediately by a complex decision followed immediately by a high-stakes presentation is physiologically accumulative. Each context switch without transition carries the residual activation of the previous context forward into the next.

A genuine transition moment — even three minutes — that includes physical movement, deliberate breathing and coming back to yourself allows a gear shift process before the next demand begins.

Breathing as autonomic regulation

Breathing is one physiological process you can consciously control, and through it you can directly influence your autonomic state. Slow, nasal and diaphragmatic breathing shifts the balance toward parasympathetic dominance, increases the balance between CO2 and O2 in the blood and changes the physiological conditions of the moment.

Five slow nasal breaths before entering a high-stakes meeting or beginning a new demanding task shift CO2 balance and activate parasympathetic tone before the demand begins. 

For a deeper understanding of breathing mechanics and how to train them, see the functional breathing section of this guide.

If you want to test your current CO2 tolerance before considering formal retraining, the BOLT score is a simple self-administered measure that takes under two minutes.

Sleep as the net result of daytime activation

I’ve never been a fan of sleep hygiene as an approach because anyone who suffers with poor sleep is usually all over bedtime habits that are conventionally used to support better sleep.

Clinically, I see that sleep quality is substantially determined by what happened during the day. Unmanaged stress, hypervigilance,  rumination, and worries often precede the evening routine. In addition, if sleep has been poor for a while, I use the term loss of sleep trust to describe the vigilance process that can focus on sleep itself – the “will I, won’t I sleep?’ feeling that naturally happens when someone has lost the ability to naturally fall asleep. 

The daytime lever is equally important for sleep as the bedtime one, so that you arrive at bedtime no longer carrying the daytime.

Your body holds your pattern

Elevated muscle tension, altered breathing mechanics, shifts in posture and movement quality are all normal adaptations to long-term stress. These body-based patterns can become habitual. Your brain and nervous system automate what is repeated, and they can stop registering as tension or restriction because they have been there long enough to feel normal.

And these somatic patterns may also actively maintain the physiological stress state that created them. A nervous system carrying chronic muscular tension and shallow or dysfunctional breathing patterns is one perpetuating a continuous, mild state of stress.

This is why it can be helpful for someone who has been under chronic stress to include functional breathing and slow and relaxing movement into their active recovery routine.

Remove non-essential drains on energy

One final principle from recovery research is to remove what depletes you and prevents recovery.

For example, evening work notifications that reactivate stress. Boundary breaches that demand you give more than you can replenish.

An important recovery question is sometimes not what to add but what to stop. The protected boundary, break or evening provides recovery built into the structure of daily life, rather than bolted on after depletion. These serve to protect as much as adding recovery activity.

Listen to Your Body

The most important advice I can offer is to listen to your body and trust what you know. Over the years, I worked with many people who had stopped listening, or stopped acting on what they knew they needed. Our bodies give us signals all the time about what helps, what is too much and when we need something different. The need for flexibility I described in the introduction comes from listening to those signals and responding to them. The best form of active and passive recovery is grounded in this relationship with your body: recognising what you need and allowing that to guide your choices.

Sources: This page draws on recovery-stress research, including the work of Kellmann and Kallus; the allostatic load framework developed by McEwen and Stellar; and Sonnentag and Fritz’s Stressor-Detachment Model. Movement break research includes Yu et al. (2025), published in Advanced Science.

Hi, I’m Nicola Turner, MSc. I bring 17 years of psychological practice, 10 years in HR, an MSc in CBT and specialist training in physiological recovery, nervous system regulation and body-based approaches.

My approach to nervous system training brings together an understanding of how body, mind, brain and environment interact under stress, and how you can work with those patterns to navigate life’s pressures with greater ease.

I work with individuals carrying ongoing responsibilities at work and at home who want to feel less caught up in stress, less exhausted and more able to switch off. If you’d like to explore how this approach could support you personally, see how I work with individuals.

I also work with organisations to deliver workplace talks and training for managers, HR professionals and coaching teams who want to understand how stress affects people at work and what can help.

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